IN LAWS

It has been 2 years since i first call them Mum & Dad.
From the surface, many thought that I am fine with them etc, but deep down it's always a big NO! haha

I am still kind :D because i really really hope that they stay healthy FOREVER & FOREVER. The reason behind it is.......so that we can live separately >.<

You know what's wrong with in law? Why is there so many peoples facing issues with their in-laws?

Now i finally know.. it's the difference in perspective.

Being an in-law, you expect your daughter in law to be nice to your son and treat him like a king and you are the maid mother of their grandson. & being a daughter in law, you should be respecting them cos they are your 长辈 and listen to whatever they say and do whatever we say.

But seriously, as a daughter of my parent.. what's the reason for me to treat you better than my parent? They are the one whom i grown up with for 20+ years, they are the one who give birth to me, the one who are worry for me.

I can never forgot the day i give birth to Ayden, my family are the one who stand right at my bedside asking how am i (of cos looking at baby also).. and who is the one who is forever sticking to the cot =.=

Okay, back to in law side.. people will say thing like.. you are a 坏媳妇 because 1. you dont let your husband go meet their parent 2. you dont let your son meet their grandparent 3. you are not filial to them 4. you never take care of them

1st thing 1st, husbands have leg and ezlink card, if he want to meet you.. he could have gone back. If i can go back to look for my parent myself, why cant guys do that? I dont understand it when guys always insisted that the whole family must go back to visit his parent.

2nd thing, in my case.. i have to say they 活该 and this is what they should face la. Why should i being unhappy just to make ppl happy?
Sorry that's not me lah.

3rd. I am sorry but i am not fillial to my parent too. period. yet

4th. take care what sia?

It is really irritating when people start saying me this and that. HELLO MY PROBLEM OR YOUR PROBLEM? SUPER PISSED.

Dont ever tell me that i should do that and shouldnt do that because I AM MARRIED. yesyes, i am married BUT I AM NOT MARRIED TO BE A MAID, to be someone i am never was..

okay~ PEACE. :D

Currently, i still meet them and try to be happy that i get to eat free good food and sometime Ayden get some free stupid present like bears and toy hammer =.= kind of thing.

insert let it go melody~ THE COLD NEVER BOTHER ME ANYWAY~ *FLIP HAIR*